Entry 84 - Draw The Line

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9/16/19

If you don't draw a line in the sand, then there will be people who will take advantage of you by crossing that line in order to do what's best for them.

That means you have to be assertive with what you expect, your boundaries, and when someone crosses those lines, it helps to point it out to reassert your boundaries

Don't expect people to cater to your needs, especially when they never considered them in the first place. Have absolutely no expectations with anyone, especially with people you barely know. Always expect to fight for yourself. Always expect to defend yourself.

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