Entry 361 - Judgement vs Discernment

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10/1/20


There’s a difference between judging a person, thinking they are wrong, and you are right, and discerning the situation as a whole to improve the totality in regard to their truth.


For example, when you observe a situation from afar and bring awareness to every aspect of it, you can learn many useful and practical lessons. You can learn how you could improve, how you could better handle yourself, and so forth. The other person's situation is unique to them. If they ask for your advice, that’s one thing; otherwise, it is up to them to learn from that situation, not for you to judge them as wrong.


The reality is that the missing component in painful arguments and disagreements stems from a lack of love in that situation. If one nurtures enough love for both sides, then dealing with the conflict at hand won’t become painful or negative or lead to a fight. Instead, it will lead to a loving understanding of each person, and both will try to come to a compromise that benefits them both.


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