Entry 217 -Versions vs Adjusting to your Environment

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3/8/20

I see this a lot where someone says, "What type of versions do you have and with whom?" And it kind of bothers me because I don't think how you act should be compared to if you're wearing a mask or becoming a different "version" of yourself because that implies your splitting yourself up in versions that are not inherently who you are.

When you adjust to your environment to act a certain way, you can still be living authentically who you are, but you don't have to give anyone access to the deepest parts of your being. You don't have to be vulnerable with everyone. You don't have to laugh and make jokes with everyone. You are not required to be serious with everyone. 

Just like you are in different environments, the way you act can change just like those environments. It doesn't mean you are wearing a mask or becoming someone you're not, it just means you are trying to act in a way that is accustomed to that event.

If you're at a basketball game, you're not going to act how you do at work behind a desk, you're going to scream for your favorite team. If you're with your family, you're not going to joke around how you joke with your friends because that's not the environment to act like that. If you're at church, you're not going to act like you're at a heavy metal concert. 

Acting and masking are two different things. One is related to accustomed behavior, the other is related to who you are as a person. One is appropriating your responses based off of whatever environment you're in, and masking is pretending to be someone you're not.

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